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SÜDFRIEDHOF, Munich, Germany, 2006
Early in April 2006 I am visiting Südfridhof in Munich, Germany,
looking for "signs of human mourning". The German graves
look very sober... and anyway the Südfridhof is a historic cemetery
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| OSTFRIEDHOF, Munich, Germany, 2006 |
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Some time later I visit Ostfriedhof. I want
to see dried flowers, this morbid relicts of sorrow. Roses.
Roses are best. Many people are there, beautifying graves of
theirs passed away relatives, Easter is near. The general atmosphere
is neutral. Very pretty weather. All those people act as if
they were going to work... strange.
When I am almost on my way out I finally find exactly what
I had sought for: a very un-German, very touching and personal
grave. I take a child died, on the gravestone however only
the data of an adult. A child. Somewhere a photo of the ocean.
Soft toys.
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VELORITO or: "Altar for the Piece of Art
that did not Make
it"
VELORITO is the minimization of the Spanish word "velorio" which
means "event, amusement in the evening" however also "burial".
A VELORITO is consequently a "little ritual of grieving". Some Basic Thoughts · Installation & Happening · Parallels · Aims
and Results · Possible Objects of
Mourning · Outlook
Some Basic Thoughts
What does keep people apart? The fear of loss - and: the denying
of loss and sorrow. If ever experienced, many people tend to
deny loss and consequently do not mourn it neither. They assume
that as a result of this attitude they will become immune to
further losses (although deeply inside they are aware that this
never works out). What are the alternatives? To acknowledge loss
as a real possibility - which however must not automatically
take place.
I believe that if one denies something (such as loss) in some
way, it tends to forcefully come into existence.
Installation & Happening
VELORITO is a spontaneous happening, a short-termed arranged
meeting of people in the public space to jointly express sorrow
over loss and/or failure.
Place: unpretentious, downtown; places which invite people to
pass by casually: p. ex. on a sidewalk; in no case: places
that immediately invoke the aura of "art"
Dimension: site-specific, variably
Object: context-specific, variably (see "protagonists" and "possible
object of mourning")
Material: cloth, candles as used on graves, images or symbols
representing the object of mourning, flowers; in short: everything
that classically can be found on a cemetery or grave; personal
statements regarding the object of mourning
Protagonists: people who experienced comparable losses or failures
and therefore have a common object of mourning
Interaction: with pedestrians; symbolic expansion from the specific
object of mourning towards the activity of mourning in general:
mourning as an activity that brings people together.
Time frame: happening; time for interaction between protagonists
and pedestrians; after that the installation can simply be left
intact in order to remind for yet some time of the event
Parallels - Human Mourning in Public Space
9-11 Altars
Shortly after the events of September 11, 2001 little "altars" appeared
spontaneously at different locations all over New York City.
They were a public expression of mourning, recalling memories
of friends or relatives that were missed in the events. At the
same time these altars often were an manifestation of sympathy:
persons who had not lost anybody could relate or even interact. Examples:
Altar
1
Altar
2
This model of public mourning is very unusual for my cultural
context (Germany). Here mourning takes place almost exclusively
on the cemetery, and also there only in very strict and regimented
ways. Hardly ever feelings of mourning are shown, to the contrary,
it is often explicitly requested to avoid "Beileidsbekundungen" (expressions
of sorrow and sympathy).
In the Caribbean I once experienced an entirely different burial.
Partially I found its loud and vehement expression of pain very
shocking. But maybe the way things are done over here, just burying
everything inside oneself, is just worse.
"Marterl"
"
Marterl" is a slightly different German phenomenon, locally
restricted to Bavaria. They are small installations made in
remembrance of relatives that lost their lives through accident
or misfortune.
The place of the misfortune becomes the place of mourning and
remembering and the passerby is invited to share the loss.
Examples:
Marterl
1
Marterl
2
Thomas Hirschhorn
Thomas Hirschhorn repeatedly constructed "newsstands" or "altars" for
those artists who deeply influenced him and his work. These installations
are documented in detail, p. ex.
Newsstand
1
Newsstand
2
Thomas Hirschhorn's installations however mainly address the
issue of remembrance, and are less an expression of mourning.
Aims & Results
VELORITO: Public Mourning as an Element of Connection - Enrichment
- Liberation
Connection
VELORITO serves as ritual that builds community and solidarity
by publicly and jointly showing sorrow, pain and failure
and thus feel connected with others: who is ever free of
loss or
failure?
Sharing & Enrichment Today for most people the idea of sharing invokes that I give
away something of the things I own. And as everybody only hold
money and success, the action of sharing is connected with
the experience of material impoverishment.
If one admitted that also loss and failure are part of the
human experience and thus also included in the idea of sharing,
sharing
everything would thus alleviate one's burden as the weight
of melancholy, pain or feelings of failure would become distributed
over many shoulders. Joint mourning consequently frees and
brings
the individual at ease, for we can let go of pain.
Maybe the sharing of pain and sorrow is intriguedly connected
to the sharing of prosperity: if someone is unable to do one
thing, maybe also the other one cannot happen?
Liberation
Expressing and admitting those things that we usually hide
and suppress liberates blocked parts of our personal power.
If we
mourn something publicly we subsequently can release it, and
only then the wound can heal.
Many people are caught for decades in a sorrow they buried within
themselves. P. ex. there has never been real possibility for
soldiers to express the psychic pain they took home from war.
Pain and sorrow that are suppressed in this way notably disturb
normal human sensibility, people become "different",
and whenever one asks the only answer is silence. That is a very
sad situation.
Possible Objects of Mourning
There are no limits to possible objects of mourning. There are
really tough ones (see above, psychic pain from warfare), but
maybe it is a good idea to start out light-heartedly with funny
ones:
"Pieces of Art that did not make it"
Almost every artist knows them: those works regarded as unsuccessful,
leaning against the studio wall and occasionally even considered
for destruction. Usually they survive and at some point gain
a certain relevance regarding the entire body of work, although
strictly speaking they are fiascos. As times goes by a subtle
solidarity develops, for they have been there for so long.
"Pieces of Art that did not make it" represent one component
of the entire body of work of an artist, just the way sorrow
is just one component of the general emotional outlook of a person,
however not the only one. The point is not to present oneself
as an unsuccessful artist, but rather to say something like: "Hey,
everything works fine for me and I am satisfied - however even
with me some artworks did not work out." Failure is something
very human - and therefore such a wonderfully element of interconnection.
...or: "Love stories that did not work out"
How about an alternative object of mourning, a round of VELORITO
for all those lovers, with whom it did not work out? Oh yes,
perhaps one should take a closer look at that tight, sad feeling
of "not being loved" (which is always a very subjective
issue). Usually one keeps it to oneself - so perhaps it
would be very freeing to observe it jointly!
With an altar full of little Polaroids of all the guys and girls
with who it did not work out. Could even be quite funny...
or quite generally: "failures"
Early in April 06 an article appeared in the Süddeutsche
Zeitung:
"The social scientific and journalist Jan Philipp
Reemtsma once described what it means to loose: "Defeats
are intolerable. A business bankrupt, a foot stuck at the crossbar,
a catcall on stage, being thrashed out of the ring, defeated
in love, all that makes one want to roar with pain..." (The article's general topic was Oliver Kahn.
And that Lehmann was nominated keeper in the 06 World Championships.)
Usually all that pain becomes vehemently locked away. Everybody
is always only showing his/her successes, brushes everything
else under the carpet... and gradually feels very alone and
powerless.
Outlook
VELORITO is a work of art that can be experienced only by doing
and that ideally obliterates the divide between player and public.
The spectator should and must be included in the artistic action
so that art and daily life can merge.
VELORITO is a concept,
a collection of attitudes, definitions and rules, out of which
I intentionally created a quite open draft whose final format
always will strongly depend on the participants. Explicitly VELORITO
is not bound to me as the exclusive performer.
VELORITO is open
source, with the same rules applicable as to software: the work
exists in readable and intelligible format,
it may be copied, passed on and used, it may be modified as desired,
and may also be passed on in modified form- however, I'd really
appreciate some feed-back
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